PS Society Book Club Recap: Letting Go and Leaning In

By Patty Roe, Executive Director

Our most recent PS Society Book Club discussion, led with heart and insight by Sydney, centered around the first six chapters of Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. Letting go and leaning in- this meeting wasn’t just a conversation—it was a reflection of the very spirit PS Society was founded on: empowering women to grow, connect, and serve, starting from within.

Letting Go of Control, Embracing Responsibility

In true PS fashion, the evening began with community updates. Sydney shared exciting news: our fundraising deck is officially ready, and we’re actively seeking startup grants to support our all-volunteer, women-led movement.

PS is growing—and we’re doing it together.

Once we dove into Let Them Theory, the energy in the (virtual) room shifted. The book’s core idea—"let them"—resonated deeply. Robbins presents a radical but freeing thought: let people behave as they will, and let yourself respond with peace and power.

The group discussed how much emotional weight we carry trying to manage outcomes, micromanage people, and control how we’re perceived. From Shauna’s reflections on how control connects to safety, to Alicia’s powerful insight about always serving others at her own expense, it was clear: the desire to control is often rooted in love, fear, and old patterns that no longer serve us.

Permission to Be Real

A beautiful theme emerged: self-acceptance. Many members identified as “recovering people pleasers,” bravely working toward healthier boundaries. The conversations around parenting and professional criticism hit home for our nonprofit leaders, who often find themselves navigating misunderstandings while protecting their vision.

We acknowledged the pain—and the peace—of accepting that not everyone will understand us, like us, or support our path. That’s okay. As one member put it, “I’m finally comfortable being the villain in someone else’s story, as long as I’m living my truth.”

Letting others think what they will is not passive—it’s powerful.

Friendship, Flow, and Forward Movement

One insight that sparked nods and smiles: adult friendships have chapters, and some naturally close. Instead of fighting to preserve connections that no longer serve us, we’re learning to let them evolve—or fade—with grace. The book gave language to those quiet inner shifts many of us have felt for years.

Several members praised the audiobook for feeling like a personal conversation with Robbins herself—and yes, more than one person is considering a “Let Them” tattoo now!

We wrapped with personal updates, weather worries (spring storms, anyone?), and excitement for next month’s discussion of chapters 7–12. Our next gathering will be on the last Sunday of the month, and we can’t wait to see where this journey of release and self-trust takes us next.

Final Thought

This meeting reminded us: PS Society isn’t just a place to read books. It’s a place to read ourselves, each other, and the lives we want to lead. One conversation at a time, we’re learning to let go of control—and let in connection, clarity, and courage.

✨ Want to join our next Book Club meeting or recommend a book? Reach out via our website under Events—your seat at the table is waiting.